Sapling Status: One Year Old & A Tiny Party!

This past weekend we had the first of two little birthday celebrations for Maple.  Yeah. . . my little munchkin is 1 year old already, and I’m having a hard time accepting how fast this first year flew by!

We had a sort of flamingo theme for Maple’s party, and it was a blast.  I was busy hosting the party so I didn’t get many photos, which I’m kicking myself over!

We didn’t invite many people, just my dad and my best friends, so I didn’t really need to mail invites.  However I chose this printable invitation from Lemonade Moments on Etsy.  I was able to send it out as a PDF in an email, and print one for Maple’s scrap book, which was great.

Flamingo Birthday Invite Lemonade Moments Etsy

I also got a little excited and ordered a flamingo print dress from Busy Little Things in the UK.  It’s adorable and I sized up so that Maple can wear it through the summer.  At the end of the very long day (Maple didn’t have a nap!) I remembered to get a family photo.

Sapling First Birthday Family Photo Flamingo Dress

At first I got excited looking at all sorts of flamingo-themed decorations.  But then I thought of the cost and the waste – most are just cheap plastic things that will go in the garbage afterwards, and they’re (of course) made in sweatshops.  Plus, it was a small party and she wouldn’t know the difference.

I decided to keep things simple by just making a few fun fabric banners and a ton of tissue paper flowers to hang from the ceiling.  I can reuse them for her big family party in New Jersey later this month.  In the end it was just a very girly, pink party, but I felt better that we kept costs down and didn’t buy a bunch of plastic crap.

Sapling Birthday Tissue Pom Poms Flowers Fabric Banner Decor

I also dyed some deviled eggs pink using beet juice! I got the idea from several posts on Pinterest, and it was fun and easy.  Sapling Birthday Pink Deviled Eggs Natural Dye

We did splurge on a delicious cake with passion fruit filling from our favorite bakery, Silva’s Patisserie in Vienna.  Maple was surprisingly ladylike and delicate when we served up her slice!

Sapling First Birthday Cake

Maple was a little overwhelmed by the party, I think because she was tired, but she was in a great mood and I was so proud of her.  In the invite we requested that guests forego presents, because Maple has so much stuff after Christmas.  I know some people like to do something, so I provided the idea of donating to Carry the Future (an amazing organization helping refugee moms and babies!) if they felt they must spend money.

As Maple grows up I don’t want to be the “fun police” and keep her from getting gifts, but I do hope to encourage her to think of others and recognize all that we are fortunate to have.  I will sort of adjust my approach as the birthdays come each year.

That was the party in a nut shell.

As for life with our little baby / toddler:

Everyone told me to cherish the snuggly early months, because they’d be gone before I knew it – and they were right.  I tried to listen to the advice, but now that Maple is a wiggle monster who won’t cuddle, I sure do miss those sleepy newborn days!  At the same time, though, I am loving seeing the little independent person she’s becoming.

There’s something new about her every day, it seems, whether it’s a noise or word she’s experimenting with, or a gesture, or an actual skill.  She’s currently crawling all over, playing with her toys, and clapping and waving at every opportunity.  Though we’ve had some cranky days thanks to fevers or teething, overall Maple continues to be a happy, easy going baby.Sapling Snow

She recently started cruising along the furniture, and I swear she’s happier when she’s standing, even though she needs support.  She’s also obsessed with clapping and waving, which is really cute.  Over the holidays I took her to the library and let her sit in the kids’ section watching the other kids.  She would raise her hand to wave every time she saw another child, then her face would drop a little when they didn’t wave back at her!

Maple has her two bottom front teeth now, and meal time has become quite adventurous. Sometime around her birthday she went from eating anything and everything to being more picky.  But not in a way you’d think – she actually pushes away a lot of simple baby food and snacks, and wants to gulp down our “adult” food like curried pumpkin mushroom soup, curried lentils, and spicy bean chili.

Along with the one year birthday comes adjustment for me.  My work / life balance is in a much better place now than it was when I posted my “Week In the Life” series this past summer. That was pretty much the breaking point that showed me how I needed part time daycare in order to be both a good mom and a good business owner.

Maple now goes to part time daycare in the neighborhood, and that’s allowed me to focus on work part time so that I can focus on her when she’s home with me.  I’m planning to do a new “Week in The Life” series later this winter to show how different our life looks now.

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The Great Gray Paint Debacle Comes To An End!

On Monday night I finished painting our walls in the final choice of light gray paint.  I’d finished the first coat Sunday, and we thought we liked it then.

On Tuesday morning, as the light streamed in we liked it.  On Tuesday afternoon, as the light moved away to a softer glow, we liked it.  On Tuesday night, as the night sky came out and we turned on the table lamps we said “yep, we still like it.”

Finally.  It was gray enough to not feel beige, and it was beige enough to not feel blue.  It was dark enough to contrast with the trim, but light enough to not stand out.

Living Room Dark Gray Light Worldly Gray Walls

Have you ever felt undecided and asked for people’s opinions, only to know exactly what you want to do once the opinions start pouring in?  That’s how I felt about the pale blue gray I posted about last week.

When some people chimed in with “keep trying until you’re happy” I agreed with them. But when people pointed out how good it looked and said I should give it a chance, I found myself thinking “nope, can’t do it.”  Ryan felt the same way.  Maple didn’t care; she just wanted to know why her dad was keeping her in her room while her mom played with paint brushes in the hallway.

We tested three more swatches based on recommendations. I tested them on every wall in every room.  One was immediately removed, and one stood out to us immediately.

Living Room Gray Paint Samples  Take 2

L to R: SW Worldy Gray , BM Gray Owl, Valspar Filtered Shade

Sherwin Williams Worldly Gray (SW7043) – left – was the winner.  It looks beige against the blue gray wall, and it’s more of a greige than a gray.  The other two looked pretty, but we worried they could still reflect blue into the room.

In some conditions it looks beige, but in a modern way – not the bad “builder’s beige” of the 90’s.  In other conditions it looks gray, but with slight green undertones. I would call it a “safe gray.” It’s beige enough to work ok with the kitchen’s fixed elements, but gray enough to feel fresh and modern on our walls.  And it photographs neutrally enough that I can use it as a backdrop for styled product shoots.

I googled the color and found lots of results – it turns out I’m not the only one who likes this color for difficult painting situations.

We did sit with the blue gray walls for a few days, though, because life was busy.  On Sunday night, when I finally got time to paint, we knew we were making the right choice.

Living Room Gray Paint Sherwin Williams Worldly Gray

I have one painting task left to do today – I just need to clean up the line between the living room and dining room.  Next up we’re hanging art and photos on the wall.  Instead of just randomly using what we have, I’ve been working on a plan so that I can be satisfied with the arrangement once and for all. Because of that it may take a few weeks to get everything framed and hung.

Thank you to everyone who chimed in with advice and color suggestions!  It was really appreciated, as always.

New here?  Here’s Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3 of the Great Gray Paint Debacle.

The Great Gray BLUE Paint Debacle Continues

My moods have been on a roller coaster ever since we started this “simple” painting project a week ago.  Yes, the house has now been in painting-prep disarray for over a week, and it’s driving me batty.

Yesterday I told you that I thought we’d found a good compromise with a pale gray – Sherwin Williams Lazy Gray.  I stayed up painting last night because I wanted to get it done and be able to put the kitchen and dining room back together today.  At 1 am I stopped working on the second coat and went to bed because I was too tired to be focused and careful.  I’m glad I didn’t push myself to finish, because today the house seems to be glowing blue all over and I can’t stand it.

Living Room Light Gray Paint Blue Tone

In the past I’ve settled for “good enough” in my design, or I’ve gotten distracted and never truly finished rooms.  But I’m tired of not having finished spaces that I love, and I want to change that this year.

I think even harder than the upheaval of our rooms is the crush to my ego that this has caused.  I never thought I was a professional decorator, but I did think I was better at picking colors.  After googling for advice on gray paints, I felt a little better when I found legit designers talking about how tricky gray can be.

My favorite is this excerpt from Emily Henderson’s post on the best gray paints.  She perfectly sums up how I feel about our house today:

Most of you who have experimented with gray’s know that they go blue very, very fast – often you think you are choosing a blue-ish gray and then when its up on your walls it looks like you are welcoming your first son. In 1992.

So what do I want?  I want the walls (both dark gray and light gray walls to complement the sea of brown furniture in the living room.  I want them to be neutral enough that I can switch out colorful, jewel-tone accessories and change things up without having to repaint.  And I want them to allow framed large photos I’ve taken to stand out.

Right now I feel like the blue is such a predominant tone that I won’t be able to add dark teal or emerald or berry colored accessories without it looking absurd. I also feel like it’s so blue that the dining and kitchen walls stand out rather than fading into the background.

Kitchen Dining Blue Gray Paint

I also want it neutral so that I can photograph my products in the space as needed.

Ryan and I are going to make a new game plan tonight.  I’m wondering if I should try bringing different fabric swatches into the room to see how they look against the current colors.  I know the feel of an unfinished space can change dramatically once it’s accessorized.

I’d love to have other opinions.  What would you do?  Would you accept the color and try living with it for a while? Or would you trust your gut and continue to look for the right color? I know that prepping to paint is the most tedious part of the task, and since we’ve already done that I’d hate to have to do it again in a few months.

PS: I’m considering trying some of the paints mentioned here.

The Great Gray Paint Debacle of 2016

What was supposed to be a quick weekend painting project to kick off the new year has become the Great Gray Paint Debacle of 2016.

First, an update on the living room. After some debate, we decided to stick with the first dark gray that we chose. It’s looking good.

Living Room Dark Gray Paint Mirror Shot

I thought that choosing the right dark gray for the living room was hard, but it turns out that choosing the right pale gray for the rest of the living space was the real challenge.

On Monday I tackled painting the kitchen, dining room, and hall with the light gray we’d chosen. As I began to cut it in against the trim in the kitchen, I had a sinking feeling that we’d chosen the wrong color yet again. But I had a gallon of the paint, and I know the color can look different after it covers a wall and dries, so I continued painting.

Kitchen Mismatched Paint Light Gray Orange Cabinets

By the time I had the kitchen done, I knew the color was all wrong. It was too light; it almost blended in with the white trim, and its blue undertones looked sickly purple against the kitchen.
And that’s when I realized how mismatched* our cabinets and backsplash were. The cabinets have an reddish orange undertone, while the tiles are a yellow brown. Now that I’ve seen the mismatched undertones, I can’t stop seeing them!

Kitchen Cabinet Tile Counter Undertones

Ryan and I have spent hours talking about this and sorting through paint samples. On Monday night I sat in the kitchen for hours, trying to figure out where I went wrong and how to fix it.

At one point Ryan teased me about hiding behind my high chair command station :)

Kitchen Painting High Chair Command Center

I tried continuing our dark gray into the kitchen, thinking that maybe that would be dramatic enough to distract from the kitchen undertones. Nope. It looked pretty awful, and not just because it was one thin coat.

Kitchen Painting Dark Gray

Then we discussed reverting to the original wall color – a yellowish white that didn’t excite us, but never bugged us in the kitchen. But now, with the dark gray blue living room, the yellowish white looked pretty bad.

Last night I picked up 4 more paint samples to try. On a whim I grabbed a sample of Perfect Greige, just to see if that worked better than the grays.   The Greige appeared to work well, but it was so brown. Not what either of us wanted.

Kitchen Painting Swatches

Sherwin Williams colors, from top to bottom: Perfect Greige, Morning Fog, Lazy Gray, Gray Screen

This made it clear that we should have used grays with brown undertones.

The house has been in disarray for over a week, and frankly we’re just over this whole thing.  Late last night we decided to go with our favorite, Lazy Gray, and accept the imperfect match with the kitchen for now.  After all, as renters we can only control so many aspects of the house.  If it drives us nuts, we’ll repaint again in the summer or fall.

If we do repaint again, I will first purchase a color consultation from Maria Killiam, the designer who specializes in color. It would be money well spent, considering that we’ve now spent over $200 on this and still don’t have the perfect match.   A $50 consult is barely more than one gallon of SW paint . . . so I would have saved money in the long run.

I’m annoyed by how much money I wasted.  I feel like I could have prevented this by thinking more before we started, but frankly I was out of practice. It’s been a while since I tackled a real decorating project. So I’m just trying to learn from this experience and cut myself some slack.

At least our living room looks awesome, even though it’s not re-decorated yet! We decided to stick with the original dark gray that we chose. I don’t know the name of it, because I lost the paint chip.

Living Room Dark Gray Paint Color Formula

*While the kitchen colors feel like a disaster, I assure you I’m keeping it in perspective. There are far bigger problems to have. And our kitchen is functionally great, especially for a rental. It’s rare that an rental home has such a nice, new kitchen.