Today I’d like to show you what wedding invitations we ended up choosing, and how I personalized them on a budget before mailing them out.
But before we begin – a quick note about that “personalization on a budget” idea. This process turned out to be quite time-intensive, full and trial and error(s), and there were times when I accepted that it may have been easier and just as nice to order the custom package. In the end we may have saved $50 . . . but I lost a ton of time.
In case you hadn’t already guessed, we chose the Watercolor Ombré Invitations from the list of three we were considering. Sometime after I posted them as an option on the blog I became obsessed – and I do mean obsessed – with watercolor and ombré styles.
Ryan and I didn’t love the coordinating RSVP card that Minted offered, though. It was bland in comparison to the beautiful invitation. Additionally, we were asking people to RSVP online via a survey so that we could gather specific info. The standard included reply card wouldn’t accommodate that.
RSVP Survey Sidenote:We chose the survey route because we wanted to know what dates people were staying, where they were staying, if they had kids, if they were vegan or gluten-free, and their kids’ ages. This is because we wanted to have “welcome bags” waiting at their hotels, wanted to invite them to the rehearsal BBQ or the morning-after-breakfast if they’d be in town, and wanted to provide enough kids’ activity buckets at the reception.
I got card stock when it was on sale, then printed our RSVP information onto it. After cutting the squares out, I edged them with orange watercolor paints to attempt a coordination with the actual invite – basically in reverse. They turned out pretty well.
Just for fun – and maybe a little because I’m obsessed with stamping – I added a surprise stamp on the backs of the RSVP cards and the invitations. Yes, I put a bird on it.
I’ve always loved the look of “wrapped” invitations; the style where you have a band or ribbon tied around them. It helps ensure that people pull both the larger and the smaller cards out of the envelope, so there is a bit of logic tied into the aesthetics of it.
I used strips of burlap ribbon that I found on spools at JoAnns, and I cut out the tiny hang tags using a special paper punch I got at the craft store. I tried to find a “you’re invited” stamp to use on that hang tag, but couldn’t find one that fit the space well.
Because I didn’t really measure and plan ahead of time, I didn’t realize how much ribbon I’d need or how much it would end up costing. Unfortunately, it took about 14 inches of ribbon per invite to create this wrapped style, and those rolls don’t go as far as you’d think. I ran out and had to go to several stores. I still couldn’t find enough to finish, so I ended up switching over to lace ribbon – which also looked awesome. Sadly I don’t have a photo of that.
Finally, I stuck the invites in envelopes that my friends and I had lined with white lace doilies ( a nod to the lace theme of the bridesmaid dresses and some of the decor). These, too, were difficult – because they didn’t want to stay stuck where they were glued.
Sadly, when I was done assembling the invites – I was relieved. I wished that I’d just purchased the RSVP cards as well as the coordinating envelope liners. It would have so much faster, and easier. Live and learn, right?
We still love how the whole package turned out, though. And even though the wedding is over, I’m still obsessed with the look of that watercolor ombré invite.
If you’ve been married, did you DIY the invites? Was it as full of trial and error as mine was? I wish I’d blogged about the process I planned to take before doing it. I have a feeling I could have learned from some of you!
After our wedding, Ryan and I popped up to New Hampshire where we spent some time in the White Mountains, stocked up on vintage furniture and goodies from our vintage home registry at Just L, and relaxed at a house on Lake Winnipesaukee.
We chose to do this easy, semi-local honeymoon immediately after because we didn’t have the mental energy to research and plan a foreign honeymoon while also planning our wedding. We plan to travel to Indonesia or Bora Bora or Italy or Costa Rica sometime this winter or early spring for a “second” honeymoon – which should give us enough time to plan an excellent trip.
All I can say is – thank goodness we did it this way, because I was exhausted after the wedding weekend – and aside from a ton of driving, which we enjoy doing, it was totally relaxing and easy.
I’m going to share a quick, photo-based overview of our adventures – but it will be broken into two posts because I have a ton of photos.
By the time we packed up, drove home, and unloaded three cars from the wedding weekend, the house was a total wreck and we had to re-pack and get back on the road . . at 5 pm.
Stopping in New Brunswick, NJ for “dinner” at Ryan’s favorite late-night-snack venue from his college days: the Grease Trucks (aka food trucks) on the Rutgers U. campus. Yes, I said grease trucks.
Sandwiches are named ridiculous things like Fat Cat . . and other, less polite words. They’re stuffed with everything you need to satisfy your post-frat-party appetite and/or give you a hardcore stomach ache.
Crashing at 1 am at an eerily empty, albeit clean, hotel in Danbury, CT.
Oh look, honey – they don’t have soap in the bathroom, but at least we have a “fresh remote!”
Stocking up on eco-friendly and fair trade clothes shopping at the Hempest in Northampton – where yes, the clothes are woven from hemp fibers. It’s much easier on our planet to farm hemp for fabric than it is to farm cotton.
Turning the car around to photograph absolutely absurd things, like this nasty blow-up lobster – that really looks like an engorged tick – on top of a restaurant somewhere in New Hampshire.
Turning the car around – again – for random photos.
Dinner with a view at Garwoods in Wolfeboro, NH, with a rainy view of Lake Winnipesaukee. I devoured my steak and veggies – having not eaten a good, calm meal in several days.
Sitting in our first of many motorcycle traffic jams, thanks to thousands – and we mean thousands – of bikers convening around the lake for Bike Week in New Hampshire! Who knew?
Wednesday night: Dinner at Lavinia’s Relaxed Dining in Center Harbor, NH. The house was beautiful, inside and out, the service was friendly and attentive, and the meal was nice but nothing mind-blowing.
Stay tuned for Part 2, where we tackle Mt. Washington, vintage furniture shopping, moose hunting (without guns), and pretending to be Amelia Earhart.
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