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Don’t Forget The Other Dog

The day after we said goodbye to Charlie, I had to run some errands.  Maybe I just had to get out of the house.  Either way, I took Merlin with me.Merlin in Grass

When we got home, Merlin dashed excitedly through the house.  First into the bedroom, followed by my office.  Then back into the living room, and into the kitchen.  He pranced at the back door, so I let him out to circle the yard.

Coming back into the house, Merlin sat down in front of me with his silky black ears flipped forward, his head cocked to one side, and his brown and blue eyes each looking at me questioningly.

“What’s going on?” I asked him.

He panted at me and proceeded to repeat the home inspection.  When he returned to my side a second time to sit down and look confused, I realized what was happening.

Merlin was looking for Charlie, excited to see her after being out on a special adventure with me. It was then I remembered how he always raced into the house to see her.

The next day I went out for more errands, again taking Merlin with me.  I was reluctant to leave him home, and having him along for the ride was a nice distraction.  The Looking for Charlie process repeated when we returned home, so I grabbed some treats and gave Merlin some extra attention.

Merlin’s confusion across those two days was a good reminder for me.  In the midst of my personal grief, I’d failed to think of how our three remaining pets might be affected.   When Merlin came into my life as a wriggling 3 month old puppy, Charlie was there to mother him, play with him, and let him know she was the alpha dog.

Ryan and I were devastated at the loss of Charlie, but we couldn’t retreat completely into it.  We had three other critters who still needed us, maybe even more now than before.

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4 Comments

  • Reply Ashley from Sweaty Girl in a Fur-Covered World at 12:03 pm

    Poor Merlin! He’ll adjust eventually. Animals really are just like people though. My dogs freak out if I take one dog for a walk (or to the vet). They just howl and howl and howl until the missing dog is returned to them. My cats are pretty oblivious though – self-centered creatures.

    As weird as it seems – even though I never met Charlie (or you) in person… I feel like so much sadness. Maybe its because we share a love of animals or maybe its because Charlie was a rescue like my pups. Either way I’m thinking about you. And if you need anything I can provide or help with don’t hesitate to ask.

    • Reply Jane at 7:42 am

      Thank you for your kind words, Ashley!

  • Reply Funnelcloud Rachel at 1:10 pm

    Aw, this is so sweet and sad. I’ve been meaning to ask you how Merlin was doing. I’ve often wondered how my pups would do without the other (honestly, I’m not sure they’d notice and I know they’d be happy for extra attention from us). When we only had Gravy, we took him everywhere with us, but with two dogs it just hasn’t been possible and that makes me a little sad that we are doing less with them because it’s more of a hassle to take two dogs with us. I’m excited to see what adventures you and Merlin get into – I think the one-on-one time will be good therapy for both of you! 🙂

    And Merlin is always welcome over here if he needs some doggie socialization time. Banjo would love a playmate and Gravy might share his spot in front of the fireplace. 😉

    • Reply Jane at 7:42 am

      Merlin thanks you for all the future playdates we will have 🙂 It’s definitely harder to cart two dogs around everywhere, I agree!

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